“Is That Me Yelling? A parents guide to getting your kids to cooperate without losing your cool”  was published in 2013 and is available in 5 different languages. It’s a best seller in China, but here in the US you can only get it now on Kindle until the next edition.

If you would like to set up a presentation or training for your child’s preschool or your workplace, you can contact me at . 

Is That Me Yelling? is:

“Engaging and practical, humorous and evidence-based, prescriptive but not preachy, authoritative yet never stuffy, Is That Me Yelling? quickly rises to the top of the many parenting books I’ve ever read. Rona Renner provides thoughtful and achievable solutions. If you’re a parent who has ever yelled at your kid and wished you hadn’t, this book is for you.”
—Stephen P. Hinshaw, PhD, professor in the department of psychology at the University of California, Berkeley; and vice-chair of psychology at the University of California, S.F.

“Is That Me Yelling? is a complete and compassionate companion for every parent and educator. With excellent examples from her extensive professional and personal experience, nurse Rona illustrates fundamental psychological principles and functional parenting practices with empathy and enthusiasm.”
—Marisol Muñoz-Kiehne, PhD, clinical psychologist, parent educator, radio host, and author.

The Art of Saying No

Do you say “yes” every time someone asks you to do something? Rona and I discuss reasons to say “no” instead, and reveal our favorite tips for doing so. Aired: September 2012

Previous Workshop: “Was That Me Yelling?” How to enjoy your kids more!

Previous Workshop: “Was That Me Yelling?” How to enjoy your kids more!

  • October 3rd from 6:30-8:30PM at Rudramandir, 830 Bancroft Way, Berkeley 94710. Register, $25 per person, $40 per family. Offered by the Institute for the Advancement of Psychotherapy.

Yelling is a common form of discipline and can be caused by being stressed, tired, or hungry. Often feelings such as frustration, anger, fear, or loneliness, can also trigger yelling, as well as a “poor fit” between your temperament and your child’s. Many parents report that they just don’t know what to do when their children misbehave, especially when a child ignores requests. We’ll talk about how to come up with a plan and discuss the things that trigger yelling.